Truthfully Speaking

In a way to tell the truth; honestly

I am a bad liar. I have never been able to lie because the truth is right there on my face. My second oldest sister used to read right through me when I was. Now I have just learned to speak the truth or say nothing at all. Much like cheating or being a narcissist, lying often falls close behind with this behavior. This behavior is not authentic and I will continue to back this up. By doing this you alter the way someone looks and interact with you. Be authentic and honest with yourself because it can save you so much time. We do not think of our actions as having consequences, cause and effect. We learn in statistics every action has a reaction. I am not able to understand why people embellish or lie through their teeth about things.

Women we know. We know so why do we fight it? If we know then why do we choose to remain ignorant? Why do we makes excuses for people when they are being unauthentic with us? It is not our baggage to carry. Drop that shit. Be honest and vulnerable with yourself about situations. I feel this will open you up to bring those answers forward and flow with the universe. You are where you are supposed to be and sometimes it does hurt being there. Sometimes though it is also the most beautiful transformation.

I say truthfully because I want you to know when you are here reading my blog I am being authentic with you. Honesty takes guts and it is being vulnerable to speak your truth. Often the truth can even be hard to hear. Other times people might not be able to understand our truth even. You have to be real with yourself sometimes though and that takes courage. It takes courage everyday to live authentically because out here can be so judgmental. We have to stay in our lane, our path belongs to no one but us. I want to encourage you to worry about yourself. Here why, because being concerned with other peoples life never benefited anyone. I worry about my friends or family when I need not be worried with their choices. Are they happy? Then leave them be. Be real with with what you need. DO NOT CONSUME YOURSELF WITH WHAT YOU CANNOT CONTROL. You can take accountability for yourself and the truth you want to live.

I am learning to implant that in my brain. People are going to people meaning they will do what they want. END OF STORY. I say it is not our truth until it envolves us and ours. Let people lie and you do not need to associate yourself with that. Leave room for the people who match your vibration. Be honest with yourself and continue to live a truthful life, watch the blessings follow.

Note to Reader: “Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.”
― Marilyn Monroe