The link you have found is dead

I recently wrote about my ex who has been internet stalking me for about 6 years now. Although he is always lurking behind his Instagram account or fake accounts, it is creepy. I removed my photo and even made my account private for the time being. I started to think…

It has been years, Leave me ALONE!

I woke up Monday morning in a sweat. I occasionally have a nightmare where my psycho ex tries to kill me but never succeeds. Yes, killing is aggressive but I think he never wanted me to be with anyone else. We parted ways because he cheated on me and got…

Leaving behind limiting beliefs and choosing growth.

Fuck, I cannot believe New Years is this weekend. This has been one hell of a year. I have learned a lot about myself. I continue to work on myself and work towards my goals. I continue on my journey towards the life I want to live. I am noticing…

Is there such a thing as being too friendly?

The title says it all here. I recently told my friend I do not think men and women can be friends. I believe this because of a few reasons, one being that when it comes to opposite sex some of us do not know the difference between friendly and flirty…

In a way to tell the truth; honestly

I am a bad liar. I have never been able to lie because the truth is right there on my face. My second oldest sister used to read right through me when I was. Now I have just learned to speak the truth or say nothing at all. Much like…

I love you and you do not even know it yet

Well amongst all things school and the beautiful life I am creating for myself, I felt this morning I am missing something. I do speak about the importance of being single and dating yourself. This has been a rough journey. The past 3 years have been interesting for me to…

Marriage, Relationships, Singles

​​I notice often in society it’s always something versus something else. In most recent news it is the vax vs the unvax. Now we are not here to talk about politics. I am here today to talk about the separation between relationships and single reationshiups. We love labels in society…

Victoria Rubin

Hi! I am Victoria, have been around the sun 30 times. I view myself as a true Taurus. I will post Monday's and Wednesday's!

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